Hey guys, I haven't made an update in so long, I've been busy with life, and school.
I hope you all are doing well, to those who actually pay attention to my updates, and I wanted to share the new revelation that had emerged within the past three days.
I'm not too sure how I can really write this, so I will copy and paste from my mom's Whatnext.com post.
For anyone wanting to read more, you can go to Whatnext.com and search "Lirasgirl33"
"Oh No (Cancer has spread/Metastasized): 9/12/12- Results of my scans came in. The cancer has spread to my lungs and lymph nodes in my chest. The doctor said he wants me to start chemo as soon as possible. I'm scheduled to start Cisplatin and Taxol next week on Tuesday. He said he will also schedule me for a lymph node biopsy of lymph nodes on my neck. The doc wants me to go in for another scan but this time of my brain. They want to make sure cancer hasn't travelled to my brain. The doc said I am now stage 4. He said he can't cure me but the chemo will help prolong my life by slowing down cancer advancement.
I am numb....from the bad news. It feels like the day I was first diagnosed. At least the emotional side of it. I am being strong but I'm still an emotional wreck sometimes. I have to continue to be strong for those I love. I realized I'm not scared about going through chemotherapy again. I know what to expect for the most part. Whatever I need to do, I will do it, if it means I will get to spend more time here on earth with the people I've been blessed to have in my life. I have come to accept and am at peace with my mortality. However this does not by any means mean that I will not fight this disease. I will fight with all my might. I know God has a purpose for me, he always has, he's never left my side. I see him in the rays of the sun, in my garden, in the smiling faces of my kids. He's everywhere. I know I'm not on this journey alone.....not a single second. Let's do this!! Cancer, you better be shaking in your boots, cause I'm not going down without a fight!! Heck no!!"
This brings tears to my eyes, and I cam immensely gifted to be apart of her family, and to be loved by such a strong woman.
I am praying, and so is my whole family that it will not spread to her brain,
that's the last thing I want, I don't want her to go down and forget me, and the ones she hold closest to her heart...
I've been going through a bit of a rough patch, as i imagine many other people do, especially in these situations...
I've realized that we all need to stay strong, we need to make these moments, however long they last all matter. I thank all of you so, so much for your support, and it warms my heart to know that even a stranger can care about another stranger.
Although i'm only fifteen, I feel I've had more than my fair share of problems, and at this point, I don't know if I can handle it any longer... Always scared that might go to her, and she won't remember my birthday... or my age, or even my name and what I meant to her
i don't want to lose the one thing I've always wanted; a mother.
Again, thank you all, so so much, and I love each and every one of my watchers for even taking the time of day to read this. I probably will not be on in a while, but thank you all from the bottom of my heart.
xoxo, Manda